A mum struggling to pay bills was left shocked by her son’s ‘livid’ response when she asked him to contribute towards their living costs.
The mum asked her son, who earns between £800-900 a month, to help her by contributing £80 per month out of his earnings. But she said he went ‘completely f***ing livid’ when she made the request.
Her son is currently saving up to attend university, but his mum is about to lose out on £60 in child benefits and said she is finding things ‘really really tough’ at the moment amidst the rising costs of living.
She took to Mumsnet and posted about her experience on the thread Am I Being Unreasonable? (AIBU?), to see what others had to say about her situation and if she is right to ask her son to pay some money towards costs while he is living with her.
Her post was titled ‘AIBU asking my 18-year-old for board?’ In it she wrote: “He earns 8-900 pounds a month and I’ve suggested he gives me £80 a [month]. Would make up for the £60 I will lose from child benefit. He’s at college and due to go to university in September he’s saved around £2,000 for this already.
“He is absolutely and completely f***ing livid about this situation. Things are really, really tough for us at the moment if that makes any difference. Vote away, vipers.” Her post was met with a variety of opinions and responses from other users, who were keen to share their thoughts on the matter.
One person put: “He’s done well to save but he knows he’ll need it for uni. It’s not his fault you lose benefits you came to rely on. Don’t punish him for it.”
Another said: “He’s earning a decent wage so paying board is the right thing to do. Me and DB [dear brother] both had to pay £40 per week back in 2000/2001. DM [dear mother] said if we didn’t like it we could move out and see how we liked paying rent and bills. We paid the board.”
A third Mumsnet user commented: “It wouldn’t even occur to me to charge him TBH”, while another said: “He has very few other outgoings. £80 / month will not put him in the poorhouse or damage his uni savings, but it might help him to understand that life costs money.”
Another Mumsnet user sarcastically added: “Welcome to the real world little boy. Oh no, actually in the real world you’d be sleeping rough or paying £200 per week.”
And someone else said: “It’s not ideal because it would be good if he could save the majority towards uni but the fact is he’s an adult and he’s earning a wage and the family is struggling. It’s not as if you’re asking him for a massive amount. I think it’s [fair] enough if you’re in a difficult position.”
The majority of Mumsnet users said the mum was not being unreasonable to ask her son to pay. Thoughts?
BBC presenter randomly gives middle finger live on air with viewers shocked
One person asked if the were watching the ‘Do One Show’
Viewers couldn’t believe their eyes as they tuned in to watch the news, as the presenter was caught giving the middle finger live on air.
The blooper of all bloopers happened on the world feed BBC News at the noon bulletin, at 12pm on December 6th.
As many were expecting a serious new bulletin, the camera cut to Chief Presenter Maryam Moshiri as she flipped her middle finger, then quickly transitioned her facial expression to present the headlines.
In the clip, which has now gone viral, Maryam, 46, can be seen tilting her head with raised eyebrows and giving the middle finger to camera as the famous countdown to the bulletin ends.
Upon realising she was live on air, the broadcaster quickly snatches her hand away and adopts a more serious role as she goes straight into reading the headlines about Boris Johnson.
“Live from London, this is BBC News,” she says as she swiftly switches into news presenter mode.
Many viewers saw the funny side and took to social media to share the hilarious surprise, as one person wrote: “It’s the new BBC magazine programme @ 7pm: ‘The Do One Show’.”
Another put: “New reaction meme UNLOCKED!.” And a third said: “Oopsie! One for the VT Christmas tape!”
Today, December 7th, Maryam issued an apology for the ‘private joke’ which was caught on air. In a tweet she said: “Hey everyone , yesterday just before the top of the hour I was joking around a bit with the team in the gallery.
“I was pretending to count down as the director was counting me down from 10-0.. including the fingers to show the number. So from 10 fingers held up to one.
“When we got to 1 I turned finger around as a joke and did not realise that this would be caught on camera. It was a private joke with the team and I’m so sorry it went out on air! It was not my intention for this to happen and I’m sorry if I offended or upset anyone.
“I wasn’t ‘ flipping the bird’ at viewers or even a person really. It was a silly joke that was meant for a small number of my mates.”
Her apology for the faux pas was met with mixed reactions with some suggesting the show lacked professionalism, though many showed her support and were very forgiving.
One person wrote in the comments: “You giving the ‘bird’ is what sums up BBC and its feelings to Brits and us who pay the license fee. You should resign or be sacked for this total disrespect.”
Meanwhile another, seeing the funny side, simply wrote: “Legend.” A third put: “As a BBC licence payer I demand more of this type of behaviour.”
And a fourth typed: “It was absolutely brilliant and very funny. Clearly an inside joke and a welcome bit of relief considering all that’s going on right now.”
Aldi named cheapest supermarket as it takes back crown from Lidl
Aldi takes back the top spot
Budget supermarket Aldi has reclaimed the title of cheapest supermarket for November, overtaking Lidl.
With the festive season here, Brits are continuing to look for ways to keep household costs down – and Aldi shoppers can be confident they’re getting the highest quality products at the lowest possible prices.
According to the latest Which? report, Aldi is once again the UK’s cheapest supermarket – with an average basket total coming to £76.77.
Each month, the consumer group compares the price of 131 groceries and household essentials across UK supermarkets to see which are the most and least expensive to shop at.
The latest research from Which? shows that throughout November Aldi was a huge £20.62 cheaper than the most expensive supermarket, Waitrose – for an equivalent basket of items.
Which? also revealed Aldi to be £12.77 cheaper than Morrisons and £11.02 cheaper than Sainsbury’s per basket.
Aldi also beat bargain rival Lidl to top spot, relegating the German supermarket to second place – where an average shop came in at just slightly more than Aldi, at £77.56.
Asda came in third place averaging at £84.42 per basket, Tesco fourth with an average £87.42 a basket and Sainsbury’s took fifth place at £87.79.
The most expensive supermarket was Waitrose where the average basket of shopping costs £97.39 – £20 more than shopping at Aldi.
But the popular supermarket can celebrate not one but two wins as it was also named the cheapest place to buy a Christmas dinner.
Comparing the cost of Chrimbo dinner staples including turkey, pigs in blankets, and Christmas pudding Aldi was found to be 4p cheaper than Lidl and £18 cheaper than the most expensive supermarket.
Julie Ashfield, Managing Director of Buying at Aldi, said: “Christmas can be an expensive time for everyone, with gifts to buy and families to feed.
“We’re thrilled that at such a crucial time Which? has officially named Aldi as the cheapest supermarket demonstrating our commitment to providing our customers with high quality food at everyday low prices.”
Mum says she’s charging family £150 for Christmas dinner and glass of Champagne
‘If you want quality, you’ll have to pay for it’
Mum Carla Bellucci claims she will charge her relatives for Christmas dinner this year, including a single glass of Champagne.
Carla, 42, is a former model and has appeared on an episode of Stacey Dooley Sleeps Over: Britain’s Most Hated Woman?.
She’s probably best known for her appearance on This Morning where she revealed that she hadn’t told the full truth about getting a nose job, funded by the public.
Earlier this year, Carla made headlines for revealing how she’d organised an extravagant Easter Egg hunt for her children.
The extravagant event included a £1,000 prize and a three-night stay at Disneyland Paris, for her youngest son, Blue.
After a frivolous Easter, Carla has now claimed that her family will have to cough up if they are coming to her house for their Christmas dinner this year.
Speaking to the MailOnline, the mum said she will be charging her guests £150 each for the home-cooked feast, including one single glass of Champagne – let’s just hope she fills it up to the brim.
She told the publication: “It’s not cheap feeding people and it also takes a lot of time to put together a nice meal.
“I’ll give them a glass of Champagne, but if they want any more booze, they’ll have to bring their own.”
Carla is expecting to cook the festive feast for around nine people this year, including her immediate family of six.
However, the mum said that some of her guests will be disgusted by having to fork out the £150, but she said: “If you want quality, you’ll have to pay for it.
“You might find a carvery that’s cheaper than my place, but my dinner is going to be a lot more classy than that.
“It wouldn’t be any cheaper if you went to a restaurant or a hotel for a Christmas Day meal, so why should I be out of pocket?”
The former OnlyFans model said she will open her doors to welcome guests at 2pm and after having fun and playing games including charades, she will allegedly be sending her guests home come 10pm.
The £150 fee she will be charging her guests does also include a profit margin which Carla justifies saying: “Everything I do is for profit and the family understands that.”
The social media personality admitted just last month in an interview that she is aware her ‘strong opinions’ can rub people up the wrong way.
“I know it rubs people up the wrong way sometimes but it’s just who I am,” she said to the MailOnline.
She also confessed that she’d like to use her ‘platform’ to bag a spot back on reality TV and ‘ruffle some more feathers’.
“If I can get on a reality show then that would be brilliant because I know I make good TV.
“Celebrity Big Brother would be perfect if that’s coming back alongside the main show. I could ruffle even more feathers,” she said.